Awesome Aanz!!

                                                      Awesome Aanz

Bright eyes. Long, sharp nose. Rosy lips. Pretty round face with a warm, contagious smile. She is Anita Reddy, oopz!! Aanz Reddy (that's how she prefers to be called) a young looking, mother of 22 year old who got married at a tender age of 17 and has later pursued Bachelors in Arts through distance education.

She confesses that her main interest lies in collecting antique showpieces with which her lavish home is filled with. She says that every failure in her life has taught her a new lesson which made her a better person.

When asked about the most memorable incident in her life, she tells it was when her daughter received 'The Best Sports Outgoing Award' on graduating. She adds that she had tears in her eyes and it was a proud moment for her as a mother and her daughter indeed is her greatest strength. However, she says being emotional is her biggest weakness.

On asking how difficult it is to be a homemaker, she says, "Being a homemaker is the most difficult job when compared to a working women as it demands you to be good at everything like taking care of your family, multitasking, finances etc. You have to work all seven days of a week and you aren't even paid(She gives a witty smile)."

"The less we speak the better it is" is what she says when asked about her view on the politics in India. She adds that just like an IAS and IPS officer, even politicians should have a good educational background which would ultimately lead to good governance.

Speaking about the safety of women, she boldly answers that it is not the government which is to be blamed each time something wrong happens. Instead, every boy must be taught to respect and love women since their childhood to grow up to be a chivalrous man. This is an instance which made me realize Anita is a person with great understanding and deep thinking ability.

When questioned if there is anything she would like to change about her life, she says without taking much time that she should have studied better to pursue more degrees at the right age. This lovely women tells, love for her is simple, "Being there always".

I asked her to describe herself in one single word, she gave me a naughty smile and says she shouldn't be describing herself, others should. She being a hard worker, passionate and dedicated person ironically believes luck is more important than hard work, money and fame.

Give more

When you feel you can't do anything more,

it doesn't matter.

Push harder.

When you love someone and they don't love you,

it doesn't matter.

Love harder.

When you feel like a loser,

it doesn't matter.

Run, because you have nothing to lose.

When nothing happens the way you want,

it doesn't matter.

Smile harder.

When you're giving everything from your side and nothing comes back,

it doesn't matter.

Stop being a businessman and give more.

When you know who you are and what you are doing,

never stop.

That's success.

Take the one-way street,

stop looking on the other side,

be happy with yourself,

just keep moving on the road you have chosen,

that's when the beginning of the journey,

becomes the destination.

Just remember,

Life is a one-way street.

And you're free.

Sweet love words

There are words that show feelings,
Some words express different thoughts,
Some words transform us all,
They touch the deep of our souls,
Some words transform us all...
They touch the deep of our souls....
There are magic words: the sweet ones,
Simple ones but powerful
Some words have ambrosia flavour,
There are words finally--
that bring us peace and hope...

Among all the words my choice goes to those that mix innocence
With a lot of passion and so much desire...
The sweetest, that I very much like
The words I more eagerly enjoy,
The ones that come from you, my love.

Your feelings deserve to be respected

         Sometimes there are people in our life that we just don’t understand. We try to communicate with them, and it seems like you are both on the same page, but it’s not long before you’re not seeing eye-to-eye again. Aside from family, these are the people that you might not need in your life.


It’s not healthy if you spend the majority of your conversations arguing with that person. It is very hard to have a good relationship with someone if you can’t even get to the point of enjoying each other’s company because all you do is argue. The two of you are not always going to agree. It’s normal to see things from two different perspectives. But your relationship is doomed when you can’t see where each other is coming from or don’t admit some fault. You have to respect their feelings. It’s a problem when you try to be open with that person and tell them that something that they have done (or may not have done for that matter) is bothering you, and they dismiss it as if you are being unreasonable.

                                  If a person truly cares about you they will take your feelings into consideration and be receptive to the fact that they hurt you. If they make an effort to change in that area, then that is showing that they care for you. If they don’t care about you they usually make excuses for what they did, and turn it into an argument. If this continues to happen you are more likely to not be vocal about the things that bother you, because you are fearful of starting an argument. You might say it’s not even worth mentioning. Then you end up settling for less than what you deserve. Sometimes you have to step outside of the situation. Is this person causing you more harm than good? Are they holding you back from focusing on your goals because you’re so focused on them? You really can’t change a person over night. You can influence them, but change has to come from within. They might look back one day and see that you taught them something. They will finally see from your perspective when the things they did to you are done to them by someone else. That is when they will truly learn to respect other people’s emotions. Whether it’s family, a friend, a boyfriend or girlfriend; your feelings deserve to be respected. Give others the same respect.

         If someone expresses to you that you hurt them, don’t get defensive. Hear them out. Maybe it’s a miscommunication. Relationships are ruined over miscommunications all the time. Try to put yourself in other people’s shoes. See where they are coming from. It’s ok to be wrong and admit fault. People will respect you more if you can admit your wrongdoings.